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Thursday, March 26, 2009

Home School Dilemma

I believe the choice to homeschool shows a true commitment and dedication to one's child(ren), not to mention much needed patience and dicipline. If a parent truly has their child(rens)'s best interest at heart I believe they should be able to have the final decision in the approach of their education. I have a neighbor who has home schooled her two boys up until the oldest graduated from H.S. and was able to obtain a football scholarship because he played football for the local public H.S., and the younger brother is currently a sophmore in a charter school. I asked my neighbor why she chose to homeschool and she reiterated many points that Jennifer brought out in class. My neighbor stated that she checked into the public and private schools but they didn't encompass all three of the components of an education that she regarded important:1)academics, 2)spiritual emphasis, and 3)cultural enrichment/awareness-as far as pertaining to a young black male. She chose to home school because she had an "awakening, where God said this is what i needed to do for my children." She went on to tell me that it benefited her because:1)it allowed for stronger social skills with adults, 2)it allowed for hands on activities (she utilized many of the methodologies presented in class), 3)a freer spiritual but serious approach to education, and 4)allowed her teach her Christian values while living it on a daily basis. This correlates with Jennifer's presentation as well as that of the article Home Schooling Grows where it was cited "the biggest motivation for parent's to teach their children at home has been moral or religious reasons."As far as whether these homeschool children should be given access to services provided by the public schools (i.e. extacurricular or auxilarry services in the form of OT/PT/SLT or PE)...I say why not? Why deny these children any opportunity to socially interact with their peers? more than likely,these will be the same children they'll be playing with in the neighborhood. This is where apportioning responsibilitieas between famalies and the local school or school district must be held accountable equally. School districts should allow homeschoolers to be a part of the school community and be involved as much as possible. When there are activities (i.e. field trips, sporting events) parents would have to be mandated to be present, accountable, and sign a waiver of responsibility on the part of the school or staff members. The waiver would be implemented to protect staff. After all, they do not know these children, their personalities, let alone whatever issues. People are also choosing homeschool to keep their children safe! As Brian presented last week in class school violence and among children in general is on the rise. We see it in the media everyday...look at Success Tech H.S., Columbine H.S., or Virginia Tech!As pointed out in the article Amid Hard Times, Home Schoolinh Famalies Persist "people are looking to homeschool as an alternative more in light of economic circumstances." My neighbor, an administrative educator, worked during the day so she collaborated with another homeschooler who also was a Christian educator that worked in the afternoon. My neighbor taught math and social studies in the afternoon while the other mom taught music and science in the morning. It was even brought to my attention that one of the superintendants of Warrensville Height H.S. homeschooled the gradson and allowed/encouraged interaction between the public schools and homeschoolers. Many school district discourage homescooling because that is additional funds that is being lost per day for educational purposes from the state. I believe that's called per diem. Therefore, that child is viewed as a lost in working capital.Between the class presentation, talking to my neighbor and other homeschoolers I admire and support these parents and agree with the statement "these famalies are already sacraficing-when times get tough, there's no belt left to tighten. These are famalies who homeschool because public education wouldn't serve the needs of their child," and parent's can't afford private education, as Mary's report indicated.

7 comments:

  1. Celeste- It is great to hear how wonderful this situation worked out for this family. I found your point about strengthening relationships with adults very interesting. Sometimes when working/speaking with students I can't believe how many social skills they lack when conversing with adults. Some are rude and treat them poorly, others are disrespectful and talk to them like a peer, then there are some so shy around adults you can't get them to say a word. When I was younger my mom always said she would get compliments about how well her children were with adults. I thought this was odd, but as I've gotten older I can understand the importance. I could see this as a side benefit for homeschooling.

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  2. Celeste, I really enjoyed reading all that you said in your blog, and I must say that it was very well put. You friend obviously sounds like she has done a great job with her boys, and chose to homeschool because she felt it was in their best interest. Isen't that what we as parents all want for our children? We want to make the best choices for them in hopes that when they are adults, they will make the right choices in life. From the USA article, "Home schooling grows" written by Janice Lloyd, statistics have shown a dramatic increase in the number of families who are home schooling. "The number of home-schooled kids hit 1.5 million in 2007, up 74% from when the Department of Education's National Center for Education Statistics started keeping track in 1999, and up 36% since 2003. Ms. Lloyd also stated that the number one reason why parents were choicing homeschooling was because of moral and religious reasons. Looks like this was probably the main reason why your friend chose this route to educate her first son. It's a fallacy when people criticize home schooling because they feel these children will lake socialization and experiences in the real world. Your friend is just one testament that this is very much not the case. I could list numerous other home schooling friends whose children are socially mature and even advanced socially for their age.

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  3. The last comment about the districts not supporting homeschooling because they lose the money.......it is sad that they are only seeing that child as dollar signs and not as a human being in this society. This is where we have lost it as a society - "if I'm not getting paid to help that person, then forget it." So sad.

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  4. Celeste,
    As I read your blog it is apparent that one common thread amongst all parents that have decided to homeschool is that the public schools do not provide the environment of learning that parents so desperately want for their child as noted in the article "Why Homeschool"? by Manfred Zysk. I think it is wonderful that your friend acted on her choice of what was truly in the best interest of her children. What I also think we need to remember in the case of homeschooling is that children can also have healthy relationships with people of all ages they do not have to socially mix in with children of their age. Perhaps this is where some of us have fallen through the cracks. What if our children's socialization came from adult role models instead of children? I also commend your friend for working to make her boys well rounded respectful members of a society while she chose the homeschooling option.

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  5. Adelle, Unfortunately money is a factor, though, because running a school costs $$. The attendance taken the first week of October somehow determines how much money a school district will receive. The school then receives X amount of money to spend on students. That money should be used to educate the children attending the school, not visitors. The school could host "Get to Know You " events as an out-reach to foster social interactions between the home schoolers and the public school students. However,to have extra children attending special class events would be disruptive. Even siblings are not allowed to join us on special outings.The home schooling families I know are already connected to social groups designed especially for home schooled children. They do not want to be affiliated with the public school, that is why they are home schooling.

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  6. Going back to above posts I to agree that your friend did a great job. I too had a friend who was home schooled and there families worked with four other families so they would often have class together and take field trips together. But what I also think what helped was that the parents had them in community or church groups and activities outside of school. My friend enjoyed this because she understood she was learning better at home than she would be at school but also got to have her own personal social time with friends by being allowed to do other activities. So she knew when it was school time it was time to work but after she was also allowed to have fun. I think home schooling can work if you but in the time and effort. Not every child learns the same way so in the end you have to do what is best for your child.

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  7. I liked Jenny's idea of "Get to Know you" event. That would enable teachers and parents to get together and parents can ask questions pertaining to teaching strategies. If the home schooled child were able to participate in field trips, as I stated before, it should be mandatory that the parent be there so they are held responsible and liable for their child.

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